Your Twin Flame is moving through similar life experiences as you—because you are One. If you are experiencing or healing through pain, they are likely healing through a similar heaviness in their heart. But does your pain make them suddenly realise they need to be by your side?
The ego might say things like:
- If I’m hurting, and they’re my ultimate lover, shouldn’t this wake them up? Shouldn’t they feel my pain and come running to check on me?
But it doesn’t work like that. That’s actually a form of relationship manipulation. It’s allowing yourself to sink deeper into distress in hopes that your pain will pull them toward you.
Twin Flames don’t bond or harmonise through pain—they come together in love. They don’t recognise each other in victimhood—they see each other in their divine state.
Your Twin Flame doesn’t run to you when you’re upset because, on a soul level, they know you’re divine. They know you have the power to choose love and heal yourself. They invite you to rise—to be your own hero through self-love and inner healing.
As you master this, release the games and choose to love yourself unconditionally through every upset, your own love will over flow into eachothers lives and that is the divine love that you experience together.
The truth is, you don’t want a codependent, victim-saviour dynamic. You want a divine, harmonious love that sustains itself for all eternity…. and you have to be the one to give that to yourself. As you do, your Twin Flame who is You, will make the same choices as you and mirror that abundant love to you. The love with over flow in your Union and my will it shine.
God bless,
Carmel.
