It doesn’t matter if you’ve been married to a soul mate or karmic for lifetimes, it doesn’t matter if you’ve vowed til death do us part, it doesn’t matter if you’ve had children with the soul mate or karmic…you can still manifest your Twin Flame Union in this lifetime.
Let’s walk through the 6 biggest objections that hold people back from leaving a soulmate or karmic partner to be with their Twin Flame—so you can feel confident choosing your Twin Flame in this lifetime.
- “My ex will always be a part of our lives because of our children—won’t this make it hard to be with my Twin Flame?”
Divorce and separated parenting arrangements are more common than ever, because non-Twin Flame marriages aren’t sustainable in the long run. It’s much easier on your soul to let the non-TF relationship dissolve naturally and move into harmony with your true Twin Flame.
2. “My non-TF partner and I—we’ve gone on for this long; shouldn’t I just let things stay this way?”
You can’t build anything real with a non-Twin Flame, because the connection is based on the illusion of romance rather than true love. When you allow that illusion to dissolve, you make space for what’s truly meant for you to enter your life. Even if it feels like you’ve made a huge commitment to the non-TF, remember—it’s only a blink of an eye compared to the eternal life you share with your one true love.
3. “My kids are young—shouldn’t I stay with their dad until they grow up?”
Children don’t care about having the image of a “perfect family”—what matters to them is that there’s real love in the home. Even if you once shared love with their other parent, that was really you seeking for your Twin Flame, because your Twin Flame is your Ultimate Lover.
4. “What if my Twin Flame isn’t as wealthy as my non-TF partner?”
Money can help stabilise the physical foundation of a Twin Flame Union, but it’s not the true source of your Union—your unconditional love and acceptance for each other are. You and your Twin Flame can always grow your financial foundation together through your shared purpose, and God will guide you in that. The foundation you build with your Twin Flame lasts forever, while non-TF relationships eventually dissolve—and so does the financial partnership that comes with them.
5. “I made a vow to my soulmate—‘’til death do us part.’”
It’s okay if you didn’t realize at the time that a soulmate or karmic partner wasn’t your one true love. You were simply getting to know yourself, and you can offer yourself compassion for that. Remember, the vow “‘til death do us part” is meant for your true Twin Flame—and in fact not even death can separate Twin Flames.
6. “I can’t see how everything will come together, so I feel I shouldn’t take any steps forward.”
God has shown you that Harmonious Twin Flame Union is real and meant for you for a reason. The journey unfolds step by step through your inner healing, rather than revealing the whole staircase at once. True love calls for both faith and humility.
Nothing can stand in the way of you and your Twin Flame. All the fears and objections are just illusions that dissolve when you choose love. Trust yourself, trust God, and keep taking the next step—you really are meant to have your Harmonious Union in this lifetime. If you want extra support, or wanna talk about it, send me a DM.

