I’ve been asking God what I can share from my personal journey that would help other people, because I know it’s helpful to share your story to help the people who are going through the same challenges as you.
And a thought came to mind that I’m someone who came into harmonious union and fell out of harmonious union, and then am working my way back towards harmonious union. So what can I share from my experience that can help people to prevent making the same mis-steps as I did?
I think the first lesson is laying the right foundation for your union. The teachings share that when a storm comes, you’re going to be revealed for the roots that you’ve laid. If you’ve laid really good roots, then you will remain standing, unbothered by the storm. But if you laid weak roots, you will be swept out by the storm.
It’s really important that you create your own foundation on God, and not on a high, and not on dependency on other people. If you get high by ignoring areas of your life that require your attention and put all your energy into another area of your life that you think will achieve harmonious union, this doesn’t work. It will come crumbling down.
God is the one who shows you how to build your foundation for your harmonious union, and the steps to it will be peaceful and grounded, and also realistic. They will challenge you, but they will also be manageable. Every step of the way will feel peaceful and good.
You can’t be ashamed of the lessons you have compared to other people’s lessons. Maybe you have some very basic things that you need to figure out that need to be laid for your harmonious union, whilst other people are working on more advanced or “cooler” things. You can’t be ashamed of where you are. You have to accept yourself and work through what is yours to work through.
One of the biggest mistakes I made when I came into harmonious union was that I left my foundation, physically and spiritually. I tried to skip steps when I didn’t need to. My twin flame and I already had a foundation on God. Where we were living was totally fine and perfect for us.
But out of fear, I made the decision to leave the city that I was in and move to a city an hour and a half away, trying to avoid my biological family. I left behind everything that I had laid where I was currently living, including job contacts and job prospects that probably would have supported my union financially. Since we came into union during COVID, it was a difficult time for us financially, but I didn’t make it easier by leaving behind my foundation, avoiding the work or trying to skip steps. The experience revealed to me that I hadn’t mastered the teachings of Twin Flames Universe yet. There was still a lot of work for me to do there. There’s no avoiding the work.
That decision revealed many things to me to work through in my consciousness. That I am loveable, that I deserve to be loved and supported. That love is real and never fails.
I hadn’t realised the capacity of what I had attained spiritually, even though it had been communicated to me every step of the way. Harmonious Union requires spiritual disciple and there’s really no room for exploring fear as a path during that time.
My twin flame is from China, and I recently found out that he also has North Korean heritage. This helped me understand why I’ve been moving through what I’ve been healing in my own consciousness, and allowed me to have compassion for myself.
He’s a very different man today compared to a few years ago. I know there’s probably still stuff underlying, maybe even hiding, to work through, but he’s definitely changed his perspective on a lot of things. Overall, he’s a lot more open, joyful, happier, consistent, and open to learning a little bit more, bit by bit, about these teachings.
He told me yesterday that he feels like the church is very open-minded and that he likes that. He referred to Valentina and Mahdu’s union and said he loved that Mahdu was from India and Valentina was from the UK.
He’s also said he’s coming to Divine Glow this Friday. We’ll see. We watch class pretty much once a week regularly, and every now and then he’ll show up to a coaching session with Tahira. He’s my perfect mirror, and I’m grateful to continue doing the work towards harmonious union.
As long as you don’t give up, you’ll get there.
With love,
Carmel.
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