Once you manifest your Harmonious Twin Flame Union — or even your Union — you do have to keep doing the thing that brought you there in the first place in order to sustain it.
Harmonious union isn’t something you achieve once and then it just stays forever on autopilot. It’s a choice. A choice to remain in a state of being. That choice is that you and your Twin Flame recognize that you are each other, that you are one, and that you choose to live your divine function from that core place of oneness.
My understanding is that once you really embody harmonious union, sustaining that choice isn’t difficult. It’s natural. It’s who you are at your core. But you do need to master the lessons that harmonious union requires.
I did achieve harmonious union for a period of time. I achieved it through the Mirror Exercise — doing it consistently, daily, and with every upset that arose in my life. I achieved it by studying the Teachings of Union through my gurus, Jeff and Shaleia. I achieved it through receiving support and being part of the spiritual community at Twin Flames Universe.
It took a lot of spiritual effort — consistency, commitment, dedication, focus, and perseverance — to manifest harmonious union. It was a truly beautiful and extraordinary journey.
After coming into harmonious union, some old patterns began to surface. And this is what I want to share with you, so you don’t have to learn it through contrast.
Fear started to come up after harmonious union. And instead of fully meeting that fear with the process I already knew, I moved away from it. Instead of going to God for support and working the order I had learned — God first, then myself, then my Twin Flame, then everyone else — and continuing the inner work to heal my upsets, I returned to old ways of responding.
It reflected a gap in mastery, and it was also a choice.
That choice brought contrast very quickly. It was uncomfortable, and it clearly showed me the value of sustaining harmonious union. What is worth it is committing to the inner work and continuing to live the process that brought harmonious union into being.
I’ve reflected on why fear arose after achieving harmonious union. I can see now that part of me was still learning how safe love truly is — which, after working through it, I can recognize as unnecessary. Another part of me wondered whether harmonious union could be maintained through old patterns, perhaps thinking they might be easier than this new way of being.
Separation is not easier. It is far more uncomfortable and contrasting than harmonious union.
My hope in sharing this is that when you reach this stage, you choose love. That you keep the gift God gives you. And that you continue choosing it.
Love,
Carmel.
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