Are you getting caught in chasing energy in your Twin Flame Union?
If you haven’t been properly introduced to the Twin Flame dynamic, you’re probably used to attracting a life partner through external means and sacrifices—how you look, how you dress, how you smell, how much money you have, your social status, and what you can offer in exchange for what they can give you.
You might be accustomed to analyzing both your life and theirs from the outside, then deciding whether you’d make a good match as lovers.
With this mindset, you’re conditioned to attract your partner by molding yourself into someone they’d want. This is where chasing energy can creep into your Union, and you might feel confused when the usual relationship strategies don’t work on your Twin Flame—or when your Twin Flame doesn’t respond the way others have. You keep trying to attract them through these external tactics because you’ve been wired to chase, instead of going within and attracting your Ultimate Lover through inner alignment.
Maybe it’s hard to accept that it’s something within you that’s causing your Twin Flame to appear “over there,” seemingly distant from you.
But attracting your Twin Flame isn’t something that happens overnight after flaunting your best assets or putting on a show.
Attracting your Twin Flame and manifesting your permanent Harmonious Twin Flame Union is a deeply committed spiritual healing and self-love journey.
You and your Twin Flame were created as One, within the same soul blueprint. The only way to truly attract them is by being your authentic self and healing all the blocks within that prevent you from loving yourself unconditionally. These blocks might include patterns like abusive relationships, self-loathing, self-sabotage, low self-worth, low self-esteem, poverty consciousness, abandonment wounds, rejection wounds—and the list goes on.
Yes, to attract your Twin Flame and enter into Harmonious Union, you must face and heal these fears and blockages through self-love and the Mirror Exercise, and by taking the actual Twin Flame journey.
Attracting your true Twin Flame is an Ascension journey—it’s about healing yourself into the vibration of harmony with unconditional love. That’s how you attract your Ultimate Lover. This isn’t a shallow relationship—it’s vast, deep, and rich in divine intimacy.
The good news? You were created as a spiritual being having a human experience. That means you’re naturally wired to connect with yourself, your feelings, your divine identity. All that’s required is shedding the layers of ego that have distracted you from your true essence, your power, your spiritual gifts, and the realisation of your oneness with your Twin Flame.
You are naturally designed to be with your Twin Flame—and attracting them becomes one of the easiest and most authentic expressions of your being once you reclaim this divine state.
Bless your Twin Flame Union,
Carmel.
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