You might not consciously realise it, but somewhere inside you there may be a belief that you’re not lovable. And that belief can quietly sabotage the manifestation of your Twin Flame Union.
One way I recognised this belief in myself before I healed it was by noticing how I would sometimes sabotage loving relationships in my life — pushing people away, burning bridges, or acting in ways that blocked love from reaching me.
I was also shown this lesson in Life Purpose Class. I don’t remember every detail, but I remember the example of Charlie the dog and his relationship with Jeff and Shaleia. When he was disciplined, instead of receiving the correction as love and choosing to love himself, he interpreted it as proof that he was bad, naughty, or unlovable. Jeff used it as a teachable lesson in how we can hold onto the belief that we are not lovable instead of accepting that we are loved and loveable.
Seeing that helped me recognise the same pattern within myself.
When you find this part of yourself, meet it with compassion. Reassure it that it is lovable. Tell it that you love it. Tell it that you love it more than anything in the universe, because it is you. Remind it that it deserves love for all eternity, because God is love, and as God’s child, love is its birthright and natural state.
Give this part of yourself the love it needs to feel safe and whole. From that place, you can attract, receive, and keep love in your life — including in your Twin Flame Union.
How this will change your life is that you’ll begin to truly see that you are worthy of love. You’ll start noticing all the love that already exists in your life and supports you every day.
You’ll be able to receive love when it’s offered, instead of pushing it away, and your life will naturally keep expanding in love because of that. Loving relationships will feel safe and good for you. You’ll find yourself able to say yes to love in every form it comes in — through nourishing food, material support, spiritual guidance, intellectual growth, and opportunities that help you expand.
You’ll start saying yes to what is genuinely good for you. And from that place, you feel grounded in self-love. You feel confident in who you are. You trust yourself and your choices.
And because your Twin Flame is one with you and shares consciousness with you, this inner shift is naturally reflected in your Union as well. As you choose love for yourself, you make space for that love to be mirrored back to you.
With love,
Carmel.
If you feel ready to move toward Harmonious Twin Flame Union, you can book a free Twin Flame Clarity Call with me: https://twin-flame-liberation-booking.as.me/consult
On the call, we’ll look at where you are, what you truly desire, and whether Union is the direction you want to move toward. If it is, I can help you see what your next step might look like.