Twin Flames can manifest their counterpart being too busy for them for multiple reasons. This block can be healed so that your Twin Flame has time for you and wants to invest in the relationship and in you.
1. Childhood
When you were growing up, if your mum or dad was always working and this made you feel like they weren’t there for you or that you weren’t good enough, your Twin Flame may mirror this back to you, giving you the opportunity to heal your inner child.
Remember: Your worth and value don’t come from parental validation. Your wealth and value are innate—you are a child of the Most High God.
2. You Avoid Giving Yourself the Attention You Need
Are you focused on everything and everyone except yourself? Do you fill your day with tasks to avoid being present with yourself and your own needs? This could be another reason your Twin Flame seems too busy for you—because you’re too busy for yourself.
3. They’re Laying the Foundation for Your Union
Divine Feminines (DFs) and Divine Masculines (DMs) are complements, not carbon copies. You are a team, and each of you shows up for the Union in the unique way God created you. Although you are one—like two wings of the same bird—you are also two distinct individuals with your own personal relationships with God.
If your Twin Flame is working a lot, ask yourself: Are they being called to lay the foundation for your Union? A Union is a physically grounded relationship on Earth, and having a stable foundation makes it much easier to be together. If they’re showing up for the Union in this way, appreciate them, meet them where they are, and show up too.
Blessings to your Union,
Carmel.
